There's This Thing

There's this thing about getting older. No it is not about wisdom, or wrinkles or slowing down. It is this thing about understanding more about what it's all about.
Knowing that life is really about a short time here, loving and caring and having lots of sex before the whole thing vanishes beneath your energy.
Knowing that life is really about having babies and spending time with those you love and care for and adore and wish to connect with.
Knowing that life is really fragile and very thin in the greater scheme of things.

When you want to scream to the world (well your children, or up your street) that ; For fuck's sake have babies, they are YOUR future, then you know you have moved over the 'hump' of life and are on the downward slide.
If only you had known.

You kinda guessed, didn't you?
That all that smothering, sweaty, lusty, fumbling was about making egg and sperm meet, but you wanted to 'rise about it' and show that it was different nowadays.

Now in the downward spiral of life you can see the importance of lust. Good, loving, energetic, joyful, committed, strong, grunty, sweaty lust was the need to reproduce and carry on the life force of the world.

And now it is all too late.
Men are slower ( good for us women), calmer (good for us women), more attentive (good for us women) and far more understanding about their mortality ( good for us women).
They didn't know it would happen.
We hoped it would happen when we reached OUR zenith at 33 but it took them another 15 years...pity..but ..such is life and Nature and such.

And all those women in the past who upon reaching menopause said; No more when in fact they ( if they understood and were smart) were randier and readier and gruntier than ever!
Poor men. They miss the mark. They miss their mark.

But we women are poorer still coz we are feistier and more ready than ever before, that is if we can resist the pharmaceuticals and (male) doctors who tell us to go on 'hormone replacement'.

If we don't we would realise what we are missing....but again we daren't tell other women what they are doing to themselves. It is a secret and I am exposing it here ...and now...You can quote me for the future 'reports and studies' that ....
Women who accept their menopausal state will quickly revert to sexual hunger as in their 20's.

Shh...don't tell men. They will feel so confronted. But...BUT; the difference is
We are far more giving, patient and accepting now than ever before...and we are willing to do ALL the work.

You lucky lucky bugga!!!